Adult BJ Sexual Advice: Part 1, Giving Him a Great BJ.

Adult Sexual Advice: How to give your partner a blow job to remember!

How to give a quality blowjob which is also called BJ, oral sex, felatio and giving head. What you want is for your partner to remember it for a while. If you are into adult play, what your partner does orally is a huge part of adult sensual play. We would like to use very provocative adult words to express certain aspects of this advice, but will use other words so this web page can be viewed with ease.

This web page is intended for adults only and as a educational tool for better adult sexual pleasure.

- How to give a Quality Blowjob -

Part 1: Adult Advice Him Great Oral Sex -

- How to find his G spot - Taking a stiff cock inside your mouth and more

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LESSON ONE: I am not sure if it was because I grew up in a household with brothers or whether I would have had the same feelings and inclinations had I been an only child but I do know that from the time of my earliest memories I have been fascinated with penises. Let's talk about the "basic penis." I regard oral sex as the highest form of expression of sexual passion that can be exchanged between two people. Hopefully this information will help you to break down any barriers that you might have that would prevent you from expressing your passion in this way and from receiving reciprocation from your companion.

First things first. LOOK at his tool. I don’t mean a cursory glance and not a hurried look, but a surreptitious examination. Take enough time that you convince your companion that some kind of treat is in store for him provided he will allow you to do with him, and particularly with his tool, exactly what you want. Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted room. Take his hard member in your hand and LOOK at it. He probably will not have the will power to stay soft, but then again you are worshipping his very essence. Few men can stay soft under these circumstances, when it is apparent that the person LOOKING at his manhood and worshipping the pleasure he gets from it. When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard and be in a state where your examination will be meaningful. Wouldn't it be nice if going to the doctor for an examination was as enriching? He must be hard if you are to be able to note the important parts-those parts sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue.

The first thing you will note is whether or not he is circumcised. Circumcision is not universally practiced. There are advantages and disadvantages to penises in both conditions from the standpoint of providing oral caresses that bring the highest kind of delight to your partner. Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a bulbous part of the organ near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, which is often called the head. Technically this is the glans penis (comes from the Latin glans which means acorn. Look at it closely; it kind of looks like an acorn doesn't it?) Just think about the sensual purpose of this glans and how you are going to feel his smooth head inside your mouth.

The glans penis (or simply glans) is the sensitive tip of the penis. This is the primary area of the mans enjoyment. It is also commonly referred to as the "head" of the penis. Slang terms include "helmet", "bell end", "mushroom". When the penis is flaccid (soft) it is wholly or partially covered by the foreskin, except in men who have been circumcised, then everything is open for viewing.

The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona. Some people call it the love ring. This joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. If he is lying on his back this side will be facing up if he is hard. It is toward this ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the underside of the penis. You know that I like to call it the underbelly. I am particularly fond of the underbelly! You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular circle come together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also be the point where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body, and it is possible to bring your partner to climax simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it. Spend time caressing the head (glans) and those areas immediately surrounding it. Beneath the head (glans), is the shaft. Some men call it their rod. The shaft does not have many nerve endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion of the glans penis itself. However, that does not mean licking it up and does not drive your man wild. It certainly can. It always amazes me to note the number of confirmed cocksuckers who believe that sucking up and down on the shaft will get the guy off. That's not it folks! If it works, it is because the back of your throat is playing tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his head! This is why men who have long penises can cum by oral sex. Most average men need about half of the penis to climax by oral sex.

Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels, nuts, etc. call them what you like, but let's not ignore their significance). The testicles are extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of attention to the balls! Also during intercourse they take a pounding, right? So when a man is turned on there is a different stimuli that all it takes to get enjoyment for the pressure you put on it.

Now let's go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the tip of the glans is the urinary meatus which also doubles during sex to carry out the sperm (cum). Here is where the cum spurts. If you are like me you will love the feeling of it spurting. Some men will give you a mouth full and other just a teaspoon full. Either way it is great. The taste will vary, before long you will enjoy it no matter what. The taste is only part of the pleasure from giving head.

I could have said semen is ejaculated but I did not want to sound overly stated or professional. There are other parts of a man's body which respond with alacrity to oral stimulation. Most men are particularly sensitive around the nipples. Many men are very stimulated but a woman sucking on his nipples just before cumming certainly adds to his stimulus.

I remember one partner I had. The first time I kissed my partner's nipples he shot before I had the chance to even get near his dick. While I have not been able to duplicate this in the laboratory setting, other women have told me their partners get off very well by hand and nipple sucking. Most men will get extremely turned on by nipple caresses. So LOOK at your partner's penis. Study it. Learn it's areas of special sensitivity completely and be ready to apply your knowledge to his body with your tongue and with your lips when you bend your head over his pleasure tool. There is nothing that you can do which more clearly shows your passion for him or how much you enjoy sex than to worship his penis!