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Advice on giving him oral sex
Part 2-
Lets have some fun giving him oral sex.
- How to give a Quality Blowjob
Part 1: Adult Advice Him Great
Oral Sex
- How to find his G spot. Taking his stiff cock inside
your mouth and more -
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part 3 Lesson 6-15
Welcome to Part 2!
LESSON TWO in the art
of giving him great oral. Finding his g spot.
The sad fact is that most people, men and women, do
not have the slightest idea how to suck a man off very well. Sure
the man will reach an orgasm but each time you do it, you want him to remember
how great that YOU did
no matter how many partners he had before you. If you are in a
relationship, it is even more important to keep your man sexually happy so he wants to only
come home to you instead of meeting someone else on the side for oral sex.
Most seem to think that
you simply put your mouth on the penis.
They think by just closing their mouth around the penis
and bobbing their heads up and down until he climaxes
automatically makes them an expert at it. Au contraire! It takes passion and
special techniques to knock your man socks off each and every time. When you have
mastered the
skills required, he will get the highest
degree of pleasure possible.
When I first started
this quest I really had no
one to turn to for advice and there was no internet. It was all trial by error.
I wanted to find that one technique that could and would set him on fire
each and every time. I had
to learn from my experiences. I would not want to deny you the
innate pleasure that these experiences will bring but I would hate to see you
lose a great companion because of your lack of expertise
and passion. Yes, many men enjoy their BJ so much that they seek out
someone else for oral sex. Well when you get finished reading this
article you will NOT have to worry about your oral skills. Ladies and
gents, men love oral sex and don't ever forget it. If
you are not giving your man oral sex once or twice a week, you and your
man are
missing out on something special.
Let's assume that you have taken that opportunity to
look at your man's package as I suggested in part one. Explore each area of the special tool and find the most sensitive parts.
You've gotten beyond just looking and now you have recognized that some parts are more
stimulating than others. You know when he is very turned on when his
hard-on points toward the ceiling. Now cup his balls in one hand
and now start gently using your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the
entire underside of his erect organ (this is the side facing up if he is
laying on his back and the head is pointing toward his chest.) As you suck along the underbelly you
will learn those areas that give him the greatest amount of exotic pleasure when your
tongue is touching it. Unless he is made of ice, your partner will
provide you with some very special clues. The sound he makes or how
he grabs your head are only a few of them. As
you discover your man's special spot his pleasure will get even better.
Each man will have his own spot. Some may be on the right side and another man's might be on the left of his penis. Just look for
his reaction and you will know where your man's special hot spots are.
For
most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring of the head
is or where the foreskin is attached. This is where the foreskin was
attached prior to his circumcision. By continued licking and tapping along
this area with your tongue you are going to bring forth a geyser if he is
new to your touch. If you have been giving him so-so head in the
past, this will be retraining of his sexual desire and he might not cum
until a little later. Also, after you find his hot spot and if you
want to make him cum just keep your focus on just one spot or maybe two.
It is usually more sensitive if the same spot is rubbed, licked or touched
over and over. If you move to a different spot or change the method
you were doing it, it will slow down or stop his ejaculation
substantially. Another basic rule if you want your man to cum
don't change what you are doing, to make him cum just keep doing the same
thing. If you are not skilled and you want to please him in a
hurry I suggest that you get him off in this manner in order to become
familiar at first hand with the nature and delight of his climax. As he is
getting ready for climax you will note changes in his penis. These signs
will be the same every time he climaxes so that you can prepare for his
cum properly. The head of the cock may swell somewhat larger then it is
during the normal course of his erection. In some men, the shaft
swells a lot and others hardly at all.
Many men will thrust
their hips forward as he wants to send his special juices hurling out of
his cock. Of course this is his juice. For most men, immediately prior to cumming,
there will appear at the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the cock a clear
drop or two of clear fluid. Some men will have so much that their entire shaft will
glisten with the wetness of what is called pre-cum. When you see this or feel the opening at the
tip, you know that the moment of truth is at hand, or should I say
your mouth or somewhere else. At that point you either have to change to something
else or his volcano will blow.
Where should you be
when you are sucking his manhood? Between his legs, on top of him, in a
sixty-nine position? Where? Because of the structure of his penis, as well
as the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue, and teeth, you can provide
the highest degree of sensation to yourself and your partner by kneeling
between his legs and approaching his cock from the bottom rather than from
the side or the top. Many penises lean to the right or left.
You don't want to suck the penis away from his comfort zone.
It is important to suckle the cock in a comfortable position. So
don't hesitate to try different positions to see what works best for the
both of you. Between his legs, the man can see you in action when he
can open his eyes. This is a huge added turn on for the man.
LESSON THREE
- INSIDE YOUR MOUTH.
Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not
tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head, begin a circle motion.
The cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the
circular motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will
suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your
head is directly over his cock. Like I said between his legs is the best
position for you to give your man head. The circle should be executed in both
clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner. I
have found many guys get off watching you doing this to them. When the technique is performed correctly it means many hours of
unadulterated pleasure for you to give and for him to enjoy. Boy I
can taste the excitement building if you are reading this to him.
LESSON FOUR -
The Lollipop lick technique
With your man sitting in an elevated position and you
on your knees in front of him, lift his hard on to reveal his family jewels.
Now let your tongue lick the underside of his balls. Wow, he will be
excited. Now, while resting his balls
on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock.
It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is bettor to do
this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice
cream cone that is dripping down the side of the cone.. Remember
doing the same spot over and over will lead to a quicker ejaculation for
your man. The lollipop lick is the one technique a few
men can tolerate for more than five to ten minutes without cumming.
LESSON FIVE - Into your mouth.
Right now let's discuss a technique that is probably
the most common cocksucking technique in the world. Take his cock in your
mouth, but not deeply. We will get to deep throating later on. It's great,
not over-rated, but if you want to be an expert at deep throating start with
the right techniques and work your way down, so to speak. Take his cock in
your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue passionately over the head until
your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind the corona. You
always want to make sure you get that rhythym into your mouth.
Don't just open your mouth and close it around his cock. He needs to
feel it slide in. He
will enjoy it much more than just having it in your mouth. Wrap
around the shaft of his penis with your hand.
Remember it won't break. Firm pressure is the best. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to any kind of stimulation
that is why when men masturbate they always stroke over the head. By enclosing his penis with your hand you give him the sensation of having
his penis encased. if the man's member is long this is very important. Now you have several options. Try twisting your head
from side to side making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the
coronal ridge. While doing this gently move your hand up and down the
shaft more firmly. When he climaxes he may want to push your head further down the
shaft of his penis. Men love it with they are cumming. They try to get as much
of it inside your your mouth as they can. He wants you to be envelope with his cock
giving in almost an out of body experience. As you are
learning his climax you will miss the fine points if you deep throat at
this time. This time you are going to give him something different. Instead
start suck around the corona as he climaxes and continue to pick up speed.
This will intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm.
You also get to feel his sperms flowing into your mouth and feel the
excitement of brining him over the edge. Giving your man oral sex is a very
exciting experience. As you gain more experience you will be able to
tell exactly when his climax is approaching and you will be ready for that
initial spurt. For most men, a blowjob is not a great one
unless you take all of his seed into your mouth. If you want
to give him the maximum effect you will keep sucking him until his penis
is dry of any cum. He might want you to stop but keep going. Show
him you enjoy taking his seed as much as pleasing him.
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